Poem: #Real recognizes real...

Men tho, what more do they want?

They tell us,they like it big. Big boobs, big butts, light skinned, pretty, beautiful and all. What happens to the ladies that don't find themselves in this category? Should they end up being Nuns? Not all men like it big? "By not all you mean 20% of men"? Sigh...

Many ladies today have changed whom they are especially physically. Dark skinned ladies be looking Mexicans in #Nigeria, flat chested ladies turning cossy overnight, tiny butt-ed ladies becoming Kim. Why? Deep down, 99% of them look the exact way their crush or ex lover wanted them to be. Who they like isn't attracted to them or they just do it for the attention to get the better man like I hear.

This same men you stay evolutionary for would come, use you and walk away because they realize you're not the wife material type. You're the type to be flaunted only at clubs, bars, pools or what have you. It's the things ladies do, it's the length they go to change themselves for temporary things or people.

From the full body wash to the fake lashes, wearing butt pads to wearing make up made for three on one face to wearing of stone padded bra (you'll need to hug a girl to know this), down to the new body magic or shaper; this does wonders to the body instantly. It immediately tucks in your tummy, gather your hips and thighs together, make your boobs firm and flatten the nerves around tummy. Sigh.. The moment it is on, you have your dream body, the hour glass shape. That instant you'd wish it is forever only for your dream come true to fade off after been removed. Mind you it's so small and tight you'd have to force yourself into it. All these for what? Men?

I have a problem with people who can't look at the mirror without having to think that they are over weight or that they feel unpretty. Then they begin to seek help where there's none. Going for surgery, Botox, liposuction ... Just to name a few.

If you didn't wanna get into the pool you should probably not wear a swim suit. Once you change from 1980's Michael Jackson to 2012 Michel Jackson, it's over, no going back. Then you have to abstain from too much sun to avoid looking like Hulk, the over night black eye bags, you have to stay away from injury as much as possible because the better layer of your skin has been ecdysed.. Then you're at higher risk of having skin cancer. I mean, how can you know all this and still go ahead in doing yourself more harm than good? Deep sigh..

Now men are saying they can't have women dream of a real Man when we are all about being Fake. Not every woman would be as lucky as #Kim (that's if she is) and there are not too many #Kanyes out there you know! On the long run, Men won't put curvy or light skinned as a criteria to get a girl to take home to mama. Then I ask? What is your gain? Just to be the ladies of prime? How long will you keep deceiving your Man or Men generally? A lot of girls can't even go out to the next street without applying foundation on their faces.

What's beauty without brain? What's a pretty face with an empty head? Now Men are so scared of yellow ladies that even if they got attracted enough to marry one they would ask her to tender her baby picture. Let's know if the complexion is a product of your melanin or it was actually bought at emeka's shop, ojuelegba?

Don't for anything change who you are for someone who isn't worth it. If they don't like you with your fat face or fat nose or slim body with flat ass, let them go. Get ready for a new 2015. Let it be about you working on your SELF IMAGE. Lose the make up, fake boobs, silicons, fake butts and tummy, let your man see how monstrous you look very early in the morning. (The worst he would do is to jump out of the bed and ask who you are) If he walks away, he's prolly after the fake you, Yours will come and if he stays. Well it's your lucky day!

Men should tell their ladies how beautiful they are, love and appreciate them. Don't buy dresses smaller than them either. If this is inculcated, ladies would patronize the fake tits less.

Women should embrace themselves, their curves, their body; what they see in the mirror and Feel good about themselves. You need not wait for a man to tell you this before you believe your arecarefully and wonderfully made irrespective of how many packs you have or even where you have the packs.

Don't be pressured into conforming yourself to the things of the world. They re all temporary or would you like to get to heaven and you're been asked for some ID...? I guess not!

In the end, #REAL recognizes #REAL

Written by

Dharmyl